Many men and women look forward to Valentine’s Day because this is considered the ultimate romantic season. Before the total outcome of dating solely depends on the man but today, women also gets the upper hand by deciding on how to make their dates enjoyable and advantageous for them.
Today, women have learned how to take part of the entire process of dating. They are now more enthusiastic and open to the idea that if they want to have a successful date especially on Valentine’s Day, they have to follow basic and general rules in datingespecially in first dates.
Going out on a date
Even the most confident women experience anxiety attacks when they go out on a date, what more to those who are not so confident about themselves? If a woman decided to go on a Valentine’s dateespecially with the man she is interested withthere should be no space for self-doubt. Although being rejected can be a horrifying thought, women can never go wrong if they follow the simple rules on dating.
If you are up on a date on Valentine’s Day, the first thing to consider is how to make the event itself enjoyable for the both of you. If he suggests something you cannot comfortable with then offer him other alternatives because theres no good in going on a date that you cannot enjoy yourself.
Before leaving your house for a date, make sure that you leave your emotional baggage behind. Being emotional on a date over something will make a man feel you dont need a lover but a psychologist or therapist. Here are additional general rules when going out on a Valentine’s date:
– Always be gorgeous, decent, or at least presentable whatever your income is. Gorgeous women are one of the mens guilty pleasures. Looking your best with that gorgeous hair, fancy clothes, and make-up can make you a head-turner anywhere. Many women would look their best on occasions such as Valentine’s Day so make sure that your date would not dare look into other girls.
– Know when less is more. Dates dont have to take so much time as long as you keep the man interested. Lesser time might even pave the way for the second, third or fourth date because he would think that you need more time to know each other.
– Time check. Remember, first impressions last thats why you have to make sure that you are on time when you go out on a date.
– Be interesting and interested. Although your date did not turn out to be your dream guy, be lady enough to stick until the end by keeping your sense of humor.
– Follow ethics. Even if you believe in gender equality, let the man pay the bills. This will make him feel that he can take care of you even if you are an independent woman.
There you go, the most basic and effective rules when dating for women. If you think you did almost everything and still, the Valentine’s date did no turn out well, dont sulk. Who knows, your next date will turn out your Mr. Right if you keep following these simple rules.
